Why Don’t Russian Men Marry Russian Women?
Why Don’t Russian Men Marry Russian Women?
Astonishing, isn’t it. There are thousands of beautiful Russian Women on the Internet. And all of them seemingly abandoned, left on the shelf.
The explanation is largely cultural. Most of us are attracted to Russian Women by their sexy, foreign accent. But if you already speak Russian, as most Russian Men do, the girls don’t sound at all foreign or sexy.
Another limiting factor is that the kind of women Russian Men date are usually already married to someone else.
Also, we must consider Russian demographics. There are far more men in Russia than women. I know this statistic is usually presented the other way around, but it is erroneous.
You will notice that in any sporting contests, - like the Olympic shot-put or weight-lifting - the Russian Women’s team regularly fails sex tests. It is also quite obvious to any casual traveller in Russia that all the women you see mending roads and driving trains are in fact men.
It is a complex subject and I will return to it later.
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Hopey, consider how my confusion comes about.
1) I actually believe truely every work in the Bible as God’s word
2) God says marriage is between ONE man and ONE woman, so choose wisely
3) Marriage is until death
Hopey, I am completely miserable. I hate my life and I hate my wife(s). Yet…
4) God says (in the Bible) that He will never let me into a circumstance I cannot handle
So… here I am… I hate my life… I hate my wife… yet God says ‘Daniel, I command you to stay in your marriage - it is sacred; but I will give you strength to get through this’.
Hopey. I am 55 years old. And I have worked HARD every day of my life since I was 19 yrs old. That would be 36 years. And I have nothing but pain and misery and debt to show for it. And yet God says ‘yup, Daniel, this is the path I have laid out for you’.
Now, I know God made the universe and it all powerful and He loves me. Yet for my entire life it is crap and bullshit and very, very unhappy.
How long did Lot get shit on (not 55 years). How long did Joseph get shit on (not 55 years). The list could go on. All God’s example of ‘put up with it, it will be OK’, did not last 55 years. So I am dumbfounded. 55 years and no happiness. And yet I trust God and His word and His promises.
He says ‘dont leave’. ‘Do the right thing’. And EVERY EVERY EVERY EVEYR day of my life I am in misery.
Can you see why I am confused?
If you want to suffer- it’s your choice. obviously you enjoy being a victim. These women do not like to be victims as it looks to me, their character is too strong. You misadvise here to them to live like you do. To compromise on things like that they betray themselves. Truth is strong character is the most attractive feature in a woman and they both will find someone much better than present situation. You lack strength of character and fortitude unfortunately - it is the lack of faith and misrepresentation of Christianity and God. God only wants you to be happy. If in order to achieve this you’ll have to part with someone, he sure wouldn’t judge. God is about love. your wife doesn’t love you and I dont think you love her. You are angry at yourself that you made mistake and can’t accept that you made the wrong choice again. You are depressed because your anger is turned inwards. Then also you fundamentally misunderstand and misinterpret this situation as something that God wants you to do, God would never want you or anyone to suffer. here is Satan in play. It is so obvious and proof is in bad words bad attitude total corruption with material things expressed so explicitly by your wife. It can go no more devilish than this and you keep bringing up God into this which is blasphemy. You are stubborn and clinging to that devilish woman and even have guts to judge me for trying to help you and others.
But I still love the bitch…
Hopey, I am NOT clinging to this woman. My human being says ‘Daniel, please run away’. My spirt says ‘obey your God’.
Hopey, forget about your pyschology. If you know ONE BIT of God’s word, He says ‘do not leave your wife’. Yet I want to . God, I want to leave her so, so bad. Yet the Maker of the universe says ‘in His word’… do not leave, Daniel.
Hopey, do not put some fancy words on God’s command - so you can explain what God says is not what he said. He was very, very, very clear… ‘Daniel, marriage is for life… not matter what you cannot leave… if your wife is insane, you cannot leave… if every day of your life is unhappiness, you cannot leave’.
Now, Hopey, what is odd about this scenario, is I wrote one untruth… God says ‘no matter WHAT your circumstance, you can be happy in it’. So for me to say I am unhappy is me disobeying God.
So, now Hopey, we have God saying, though His written word ‘Daniel… ‘you must stay in your marriage, where your wife goes against God’s will, and you are unhappy each day; and the fact that you are unhappy, is actually YOUR FAAULT, Daniel…’
Hopey, every syllable I write is 100% in agreement with God’s word. What should I do? Should I curse God and say ‘I will rebell against you!; I will not obey You!’
How can I do that?
Fake dude. I dont love her AT ALL. I want to run away. But you remember when you were 2 yrs old, that daddy said ‘dont run across the road’.
God, the Almighty says ‘Daniel, do NOT leave your marriage’
When you were two maybe you wanted to disobey daddy. But you obeyed. And you are alive.
I am 55 yrs old and I want to disobey God. Should I disobey Him?
God is not asking you to persevere and stay in marriage. Old Testament is absolutely unreliable source for Christianity to me and I think old testament fables should be discarded fully as Jesus said I will destroy the temple and build new one. so only new testament should be taken into consideration. If you are a Christian. Although I do not know how many people throughout history edited and changed the bible. Your concept that God will change something about about your relationship only if you keep trying - absolutely not. God can arrange many many things for you but he will not change FREE WIll of another person, that is fundamental gift he gave to a human. God cannot affect free will of your wife and make her stop making bad choices and start making right choices. That is fundamentally up to your wife and if you sit here and wait till God will soften her cold heart - you are in for a bumpy ride, it is useless. God will not intervene in the free will of a human but he can help you separately if you ask him and arrange events so that you will be guided to a person who would make you happy.
Hopey, Jesus Himself said He does not agree with divorce.
Daniel, I allow you to divorce your wife.
Amen.
Daniel… you must NOT stay in your marriage, where your wife goes against God’s will, and you are unhappy each day; and the fact that you are unhappy, is actually NOT YOUR FAAULT, Daniel…
Ha ha…. Jesus. You are a funny Guy. You are God Who made the universe. So You cannot change. And You previously said, in agreement with Your Father… divorce is a NO.
Jesus, You are doing what they call a ’shit test’. I will not fall for the mistake.
But if You could help me out, I would like that.
I AM God Who made the universe. So I cannot change. And divorce is a YES.
Divorce her, my son… I give you my permission.
Actually where does it say in the bible that Jesus says no to divorce? Refer me to that quote, Daniel. Stop lying God never said to you stay in the marriage, that was the voice of your fear. It’s blasphemy.
Exactly… I never said that!!!
Stop lying, Daniel, my son.
Avoid russian females in future, my son, as their are DEVIL.
There are already a lot of sufferers, as you can see from this forum, and i am here to help those saint people.
Russian females are pure SATAN, and my mission here on this forum is to help their innocent male victims…
Amen.
Jesus, do You not remember saying this:
“And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him. And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” —Mark 1:1-12
OK, Jesus. I have passed the ’shit test’ (ask Jester what that means, if You are not sure)
So, pardon the French: ‘now what the fukk do I do?’
Jesus, I did a typo. I think you said that is Mark 10. In Mark 1 you were just a glean in your Daddy’s eye.
as a buddhist we are not used to pray god/ gods and ask him to give us different things. and really my knowledge is very less in this matter. However, if there is a god,, according to the books he had created both good and evil in the world. satan is suppose to be his own creation and something he very much liked.(correct me if i am wrong). he was banished just because he didnt respect the human. well thats one mistake he did although he was the favourite of god. why was he the favourite? probably he was not all that bad? I dont know. anyway.. i am sooooo sure god will never approve someone trying to live with a person just for the sake of satisfying god while hurting himself and the hurting the other person as well. you are one confused dude. comeon .. make up your mind. you love her or not? probably she also can feel that you dont love her. may be it is the reason for her problems. may be she is just trying to get more attention from you. probaly if u divorce her she would live more happier. only you know the real scenario. dont hurt someones feelings like this. god will definetely not approve that. and thats not from any book and just common sense.
The thing is, Daniel, when you read a bible you should pay very close attention to the wording, what the question was and what the answer was exactly, who asked and what context.
In this case the Pharises asked if it was lawful to put away a wife. So Pharises were the jewish priests. Are you a jewish priest? So Jesus in this case refers them to their own Jewish law (Moses’s example). Maybe if it was you he would refer you to your gentile law (or current law of Australia for divorce). In the context of bible a wife is a virgin woman and lets get it straight - your wife isn’t a virgin and wasn’t so when she married you. She was married three times!
She isn’t qualified to the wife definition. Only your first woman (if that was marriage at the church) is qualified to be a wife. Threfore you should have stayed with wife 1 by default.
Since it’s your second marriage already, do not even go there. This passage in bible doesn’t refer to you.
Basically I’d like to note also. That your question is “can I divorce?” And the answer of Jesus “No, you cannot divorce”. That’s not the case. Jesus didn’t say “you cannot divorce” he said “whoever divorces and marries someone else commits adultry”. Adultry is a sin, yes. If he didn’t allow divorce at all, he simply would said PLAIN AND SIMPLE “nobody should divorce”. He just said this is adultry. Of course adultry is a sin but that’s something you have to take upon yourself. Sin like all other sins. That your “wife” for example, commits daily against you.
[Jesus], which is the great commandment in the law?” And he said to him, ’You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets.”
So. Bascally you should love your neighbour as your love yourself. That means equal love to yourself as to the neighbour. If you do not love yourself as you love her - you break the biggest commandment of Jesus. Love is a verb and by letting her humiliate you and hurt you you don’t show much love to yourself. Only to her.
Daniel, stop hiding behind an old book, which was written by several men over the ages. God does not talk to people or write books. Think about it, he does what he wants and doesn’t care whether or not you marry or divorce etc… And if you misbehave, Santa won’t bring you presents… Don’t be a fool. You get one life to enjoy, and it’s a short life at that. You’re 55 years into it, and absolutely miserable. It is nobody’s choice but your own to stay in misery or flee. Your mother, father, friends, family and loved ones all want to see you happy, so why would the imaginary man in the sky want to see you suffer any longer? Only if he’s an asshole, or you’re the 2nd coming of Jesus, meant to suffer for mankind’s sins (highly doubtful). Get off your high horse and stop being a brainwashed sod. Your “wife” is being a bitch because she wants out of the marriage, but wants you to initiate and therefore, take the brunt of the blame. That is the manly thing to do, take the blame and exit a broken marriage. You will both be happier in the end, and any God I believe in wants us all to be happy.
God is the aliens don’t you know that! They control us and are waiting for the right time to communicate with us. I talk to them all the time. They told me they want you to leave your wife if you want to look like an intelligent creature.
DW, you are the one with the perverted view of the world. Come to my country and see for yourself how many pornstars and hookers you meet. See how many slutty girls you meet. You might be surprised. You should stop watching all that sporn (the s is to avoid the moderator), it is perverting your brain.
I hate hillsong church. I will write a website to destroy them. Adults in their church offer my 14 yr old son sex. Then they declare me insane with never talking to me. Those cunt bastards could have helped my wife and son. They destroyed my wife and son. Hillsong church is the house of Satan I have proof. And my wife is a lunatic. I have proof
Fukk Russian women
LOL!!!! I WILL MEET NONE BCOS I WONT BE IN PLACES LIKE THAT. HA HA HA..
Wife is away this weekend to daughter in Canberra; but already today (Saturday) she has rung me five times telling me stuff to do; I am supposed to drive teen son 1 hour to Hillsong church to watch Bear Grylls talk. He does not have a ticket (sold out), but wants to try to lie his way in. I explained to son I dont think it is correct to lie your way into a church event that you have not a ticket; son understands… but wife calls son many times explaining it is OK, then wife calls me many times ‘asking’ me if I will drive him; I say ‘no’; wife calls again and again, until once again I am badgered into submission; my ONE DAY of no nagging and badgering and the wife decides I cannot have a quiet day (I did, though, watch Man U and Chelsea - which I am not allowed to do ever - I cannot watch sport as my wife does not like the sound of commentators and also thinks it is a waste of my time).
Hopey do you know Moses left his wife because she was just a pain in the arse bitch. You can read that in the bible. I paraphrase a little. Ha ha. But he had to leave his wife behind when he moved to Egypt. The wife just refused to to obey him. Can I conclude if God says ok to Moses He will say ok to me
You know my first marriage when I was 19 yrs old my Aussie wife after two weeks of honeymoon said ‘no more sex. Well maybe once a month to allow you’
Anyway I asked her to see a doctor as that did not seem normal. No doctor ever checked her out physically. But the psychologists just told us (me) if she does not want sex you cannot demand it. I stayed with her 10 years under those rules. You see I had given my promise. Well after 10 yrs we learned she had failed kidneys. She always had kidney disease and when she was about 30 they jet gave up
Holy smokes fakey. You remember more about what I wrote than I do!
Hopey thinks Jesus is a dude who’s words can be twisted.
Jester does not believe in God. He follows Richard Dawkins view
Buddists don’t bother God with specific requests
And finally I am left to hope on aliens
Now I know I can simply make every and any decision I feel like at any moment in time. But that is why we have a messed up world. Everybody is doing what they like at the moment and what they can get away with. I do not agree with that life method at all
I didn’t twist Jesus’ words, you did! What kind of marriage is that when your wife only talks to you because of the credit card! It’s not marriage, it is a joke!
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