Should I Marry A Russian Woman With Children?

Should I Marry A Russian Woman With Children?

As we know, Russian Women are capricious and free-spirited. One day they are the dutiful bride at home. The next - whoops - they’ve run off. Straight out through the cat-flap.

This is why you may consider taking on Russian children as a kind of insurance policy. A woman with children is less likely to run off and is also less likely to find someone else to take her on.

Here’s a handy rule of thumb. If you are ten years older than your Russian Woman, count a minimum of one child. If you are fifteen years older, take two. And so on.

Another rule applies if you are fat and bald and your Russian Bride is a sinfully skinny, leggy blonde. In addition to the rule above, take on an extra child or two for good measure.

Now, if by using this computation you cannot find a woman with enough children (about 8 kids is a safe number) you can always take on a Mother In Law as well. In short, there is safety in numbers.

Always remember. Do not fall in love with the first Russian Woman with a child you meet. Take your time to find a woman with a really spoiled, obnoxious, Russian brat. Your Russian wife will then be around for many years to come.

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213 comments to Should I Marry A Russian Woman With Children?

  • Kate

    You have written some astute observations but I am afraid that your equations appear to be incorrect based on the Russian/Westerner couples I know.

    I agree that a groom older than the bride should expect/accept one kid. However I think two kids is just a matter of an extra year or two tacked on. By the time you hit a fifteen year difference you are definitely looking at 2+ kids and a live-in mother in law. This is not necessarily a loss as the mother in laws actually know how to cook and parent all of the children.

    I think that minuses that a groom may possess other than age, such as excessive weight, recessive hairlines and general dullness can be compensated for with Mercedes, diamonds and leapard print clothing expense accounts, don’t you?

  • Boriton Babaton

    Hello CopyDude;

    I am married with a Russian lady with a child (a 9 years old girl). So, let me share my experiences with you:

    - For a Russian lady, the order of importance is the following:

    her child(ren), her family (mom, father, babula, and etc.), her job, and you.

    - Russian children are spoiled. They don’t know the meaning of “please”. So, that’s why they order: “Hachu kushet! hachu this, hachu that! ici suda!”. Russian mothers couldn’t know how to handle their children; they feel obligated when their spoiled child has asked for something.

    - Even though you are nice and calm, a Russian lady always defends her child(ren) against you. For example; when you say this child something in nice way, she starts defending him/her. She can even break your heart to keep you away from him/her.

    - Russian child will never accept you. There is a thick and straight line between you and this child. No mather how nice and kind you are, you couldn’t approach him/her. She/he loves to make fun of you… You are a monkey in his/her eye.

    - Russians are super-nationalist. What they care is money and good life. A russian only loves another Russian. If you are not a pure Russian, forget about love. After getting married (what a great mistake), you will find yourself in the world of lonelyness. As your Russian wife spends all her time with her child, you will have no special moments together. Plus to this, she will not have a child from you — not to irritate her son/daughter.

    - Russian wife and child(ren) can team up against you. Be careful and don’t trust them.


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  • Manuel H

    Please, don’t get married with Russian women, but if you want a lot then go to a middle size city to meet one, a real woman that knows about hard life. Women from Moscow are are high level capricious and they do not keep together with their husbands in low money times. Many unhappy men (divorced and deceived and left) I met in Moscow. So sad.

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  • Tata

    Sorry guys, but it is true. We can only truly love Russian men (although we often hate them just as much). It is not your fault, it is the culture plus the works of the cold war/stereotypes you yourself put on us. No matter how you try, we sense that you look down on us, as second-hand, third-world sort. A nation which sent the first man in space and made such a tremendous cultural and scientific contribution, can not be third world, no matter how f***d up it is. We do not consider ourselves lower than you, no matter how much material comfort US can offer. As a matter of fact, on very deep levels we do not measure life in money. The most expensive whore will drop all of her comfort and run with a boy if she truly falls in love with him. And usually the boy will be Russian. Because he will never tell her: “You are a Russian whore” (even if she is a whore). I’ve been once called “an exotic animal” by my American ex-boyfriend. Sweet! Do you think, I would be able to truly love him? ALL of my American men I have dated said that or meant that. Now, I am so HAPPY to have met a Russian guy, finally I am at home with someone who will never point my nationality into my face. That one we always DO remember and never forget.
    However, I must say, having met a lot of older Americans (70+) I could see a prospect of falling in love with an older American (if I happened to meet him in 1930’s). Something has really changed in the culture and American men, because those old guys are very different. They are more like “real men”: brave, noble, protective, generous, soulful, knowing what a woman needs.

  • Rick R

    Rick R,

    I am thinking of dating Russian women. I am 65 years old and ben divorced twicw and have 6 married children with families. I treat women very kindly, and like to get in deep conversations with them and want to be close. I am well to do and I would like to marry one of them because they look so beautiful and caring. Please give me some advice to whether i should do this.

  • martica

    xaxxaxa! i just had a big good laugh… :-)

  • Steve

    American men, do yourself a favor and stay away from Russian women. Russian women want to be taken care of. They don’t marry or date American men because they love them. They go with us because they feel they can have a better financial life for themselves or their child. All of the woman have one child from a lazy drunk alcoholic ex-husband that will never pay one cent or kopek in child support.

    When your Russian wife’s son or daughter is misbehaving, she will defend the child against you every time even when the child needs legitimate correction. Russian woman are, jealous of other women, selfish, greedy and most drink too much. Your Russian wife will treat your child from a previous marriage like garbage. A Russian woman loves her child above all else. This is natural. But her family and her desires come before you at all times. She does not care about you or your needs. She also has an inferiority complex that needs professional help. Russians are in competition against America when we could care less about them.

    So my advise is, have a sexual relationship with a Russian woman, throw her a few dollars every month to keep the sex coming and treat her like crap. She will then respect and fear you. She is use to this from her husband Ivan or Vladic beating her, cheating on her and being drunk and without money most of the time. Russian woman do not respect “Nice Guys”. Stay away from these beautiful woman, they are like black spiders and do not have a heart.

  • Iohan

    “So my advise is, have a sexual relationship with a Russian woman, throw her a few dollars every month to keep the sex coming and treat her like crap.”
    What a moron you are, you don’t really think that they will agree to that attitude.

  • Gerard

    “So my advise is, have a sexual relationship with a Russian woman, throw her a few dollars every month to keep the sex coming and treat her like crap.”

    Keep on dreaming,dickhead.
    There is no Russian woman who will even start sexual relationship with you personally. They can recognise idiots and don’t normally bother with them.

  • Anthony

    Wow, Steve, you are a real piece of shit, aren’t you?

  • Anna

    ” I’ve been once called “an exotic animal” by my American ex-boyfriend. Sweet! Do you think, I would be able to truly love him?”
    Nearly died from laughter. You should have tell him - Love you, my “bold old pig”!

  • Anna

    “She also has an inferiority complex that needs professional help. Russians are in competition against America when we could care less about them.”

    Again nearly died from laughter. After having been to America and looking at most American women, I’ve got a superiority complex, not inferiority.

  • Irina

    August 29th, 2011 at 2:17 pm
    “She also has an inferiority complex that needs professional help. Russians are in competition against America when we could care less about them.”

    Again nearly died from laughter. After having been to America and looking at most American women, I’ve got a superiority complex, not inferiority.”

    Also has been to America, and also nearly died from lauthter. What competition? We, thank God, in different leagues.

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  • Bonjour, je suis de la France. Ma femme va se fâcher si elle entend cela.
    vimax, what is vimax

  • achillies97

    rossian femails need hallthy distens?

  • Heartache

    Basically..Never ever trust Russian women…Take it from experienced man.


    It is fact and true….Never trust Russian women…they are nothing but users to your wallet..have sex with them as long as you can… they would do any thing for you just to take your buck out.so they good for sex only.Never marry them…NEVER TRUST RUSSIAN WOMAN

  • Robin

    A lot of people say how Ruski women are gold-diggers and only after one thing. Money.
    Well, a lot of those wise-guys should come and sit in the Family Court here in Australia and see what females do to their former husbands. They’re like Funnel Web spiders. They let the man screw them to put him off his guard; then screw him again for everything he’s got and then try and drive him insane, just for a bonus.

  • aussie - boy

    USA-BOY That is so true…i married a Russian woman with her own child and mine….oh god, what a mistake…..What is this promise bullcrap!!! STRONG ADVICE….Don’t marry RUSSIAN WOMAN WITH KIDS, you only be a piece of shit, and mentally screwed. I’ve been blackmailed by this Russian woman…..She was having my baby in Russia, she said to me..Quote: If you don’t get my visa to Australia, I will kill YOUR baby!!! Is that sick or what..Why do i have to say sorry all the time, am I always 100% wrong.WHAT IS THIS COMPUTER BULLSHIT IPHONE CLASSMATES SKYPE, AND TALK MORE TO THERE FRIENDS … change screen on computer every time you walk in the room. HELLO YOUR MARRIED RUSSIAN WOMAN, ISN’T THAT WHAT YOU WANTED, EDUCATED UNIVERSITY CRAP….JOBS WITH BIG NAMES LOL…eg tradesman in Australian, tradesman in Russia: LEADING CEO business manager..LOL 1 more thing: THEY HIDE A LOT OF THINGS FROM THERE PAST and no time for family….I FEEL SORRY FOR OTHER RUSSIAN WOMAN THAT ARE HONEST..

  • Why NOT marry a Russian woman?
    If you are nursing the idea of getting married to a woman from any of the Russian states,get ready for a strange and new eye opening experience.From the very beginning it is destined not to be an easy ride.Starting from the differences in mentality,the language barrier,the usual age gap between the two of you,and finishing with the intimidating immigration process in the former soviet countries,this project of yours may become one of your worst nightmares.Buiding a strong and happy relationship with a “Russian girl” seems to be the greatest affair of your personal life,yet this commonly encountered illusion among Western men,when applied in real life,proves to remain what it really is:just an illusion.

  • bill

    Trust me you do not want to marry a Russian lady with or without kids no matter what people tell you about them. I did it and fell in love and it was one of the most biggest mistakes in my life. For her it was all about money and I was not rich but when she was in Russia the only time she called me was to have money sent to her. Once she came to the USA to be with me I found out her hobby and that was to stay up all night and drink as I went to bed alone every night. It lasted only three months then she left me to move to a different state. There is much more but I am sure you get the idea.

  • RespectYourself

    you are completely right.

    My advise - you guys need to evaluate yourself properly before dating or marriage with a Russian lady. If you treat here like a toy or a strange animal, she will treat you the same way or even worse. If you are old,bold and ugly, don’t think that she will fall in love with you easily. If you are not interesting to your native girls why you think you will be interesting to a young beautiful Russian lady?
    May be only for money - then don’t complain. You have a deal.
    And yes, we can passionately love only Russian men, with foreigners we have too many cultural differences even to think one way.

  • RespectYourself

    Steve, you write this “So my advise is, have a sexual relationship with a Russian woman, throw her a few dollars every month to keep the sex coming and treat her like crap.”

    Believe me, no one Russian girl will date or even have a meeting with idiot like you. So keep living in your stupid dreams and then have a great disappointment of all your life.

    Btw, the more i read the more i understand that this is a site for loosers, don’t you think? The site where they can complain about their miserable life with Russian girls.
    That’s a great fun for me :))
    So all of you guys were fu…d around by Russian girls…That has the one conclusion - you are stupid or you are great liars.

  • Ben

    This thread is full of stupidity…I speak from experience. I am an American…my wife is Russian…she didn’t come from a mid sized city…and love is love …there is no equation other than that when it comes to a unity. Her daughter before out marriage is also full of love and respect…my advice is to stay away from stupid stereo typing…it’s amazing that people in todays day and age seek their dreams and call on idiots for advice

  • Lis

    Is there any chance for a young childfree beautiful ukrainian lady to get her beloved american to marry her? If he is much more rich, smart and successful than her?

  • I know more about this than the author does!!

  • Matthew

    I just finished dating a Russian woman from Tomsk Siberia (lives in the DC area). She was tall, skinny, blond and very attractive, but her English was 5/10 and she was an entrepreneur which made her doubly complicated. Here is my experience:

    The cultural differences are huge. This girl grew up with nothing and no hot water 3 months out of the year, and made something of herself and grew a business to 150+ employees. Despite this, I found her value system shallow, and she was disciplined to a fault. She did not drink, she had no friends, she worked and spent her days exercising and planning her next vacation. She also never once said please or offered to pay for a meal. In Russia, the men pay for everything.

    We fought over her high maintenance personality and then one day she ended our relationship because of “value system” which I later determined was because she wants a rich(er) guy. I should add that she was married once… End of month three the man came home and she was moved out. Why? Because half way through the month he was broke. Why? In Russia, the men pay for everything.

    The best part though, after she ended our relationship she continued to pursue a purely sexual relationship. But she scheduled me like a zumba class. Specifically every Tuesday and Thursday at 1:30 - “I’ll be back the same time Thursday, and then, every Tuesday/Thursday.” I remember my jaw dropping. I cut it off when when she requested Sunday too; I had had enough and was seeing someone else.

    So that’s Russian women. I’m sure they’re not all like this, but if this woman had a heart, damned if I could find it.

    I have a buddy who married a woman from Nikolev (Ukraine). She seems very normal. If you’re after Russians - stick to the big cities in Russia and the Ukraine. In a country where the average monthly income is $600, you can expect to be scammed. Don’t do any of the Anastasia sites, they are in the business of selling fantasies, not reality. Kievconnections is reputable and I know a couple of guys that have gone through it.

  • John Adam

    Never trust Russian women!!!!!

  • Hopey

    Binge of bitter losers posting here.
    Most of which are middle income mid life crisis men who wanted some younger woman from Russia with appereance of supermodel who would make more money then them and have a degree from prominent University.
    Bottom line is greed: they didn’t want to pay bills of an average (poor) Russian woman.
    Never occured to them why would the woman they pick young rich supermodel graduated from acclaimed University - be single in the first place.
    Dumb fucks

  • Onidi

    As one married to a Russian, I would advise you to think about the Social Class of the woman concerned - and the kind of upbringing that the kid/s have had… Middle Class women are difficult at the best of times; but the offspring of ‘Russian Intelligentsia’ can be insufferable! It is their parents faults, they have often been brought up to believe that they can do no wrong. ± the cultural expectations of Russian women are often frustrating - if not ludicrous… i.e they expect you the westerner to take FULL charge/ responsibility for EVERYTHING in your own country/ to be kind, sensitive etc yet at the same time an Alpha Male! Money is a taboo subject - and the chances are that your partner will not like having to work, perceive that all Westerners are wealthy, and (if offspring of the intelligentsia - also be very reluctant to do house work! Good luck - because you will need it…

  • Hopester

    stop reposting shit, fakeshit!

  • Onidi

    If that rather rude comment was meant for me? Rather than the original questioner, I would point out that I am not a “fakeshit” (whatever that is?) rather have been happily married for going on a decade - to a woman my own age. If the advice given is refuted, that is the prerogative of the reader… From my perspective, my comment was/is ‘fair comment’ (based on personal experience). If one chooses to dismiss that advice - so be it. I for one would never say, “don’t do it” - rather just be clear at the beginning about each other’s expectations. It will prevent mishaps/ misunderstandings later on.

  • Lilu

    As a Russian woman, i can tell you - do not marry Russian women from websites. All good, normal Russian women marry Russian guys and prefer to stay within their culture. We consider these bride women traitors, they have no values. Because the first Russian value is to be Russian, to be a patriot. These women betray their own country, why you expect they will not betray you? Don’t complain, because you guys yourself put yourself in the hands of a certain group of women who look for an easy way out of their difficult lives. This sort of women ARE material, they WILL expect full material comfort and will give nothing in return. Normal Russian women stay at home and marry their men!! Normal Russian women work often much harder than Russian men, and they are able to love like no one else - but only in their own culture. A normal Russian girl will not be looking for foreigners on websites! Love and life and culture is more complicated than a click of a button. These women want their life easy as a click. Why you want to marry this scum of our society??

  • Hopey

    Hey Lilu I am actually on one of such sites you speak about and I actually work at 2 jobs have 2 degrees, pay taxes and don’t consider myself “scum of society”.

    What the fuck are you doing here, then if you are such a patriot go and post on Russian Orthodoxy Sites in Russian language. Bugger

  • Hopey

    Onidi - I was speaking about someone posting as Daniel - reposting his stuff from a year ago post. Couldn’t care less about your opinion - I have no idea what you are talking about regarding intelligenzia and Russian middle class (what middle class? idiot, if there was any middle class to speak of why would anybody want to immigrate?).

  • Onidi

    Clearly Mr Hopey is an obnoxious and very rude person - who - if he has “Two degrees” has one in “being an arrogant, self opinionated so and so”… If you have no interest in what anybody else says or thinks why bother to join a discussion forum? If you are so unable to grasp the concept of formal semantics (i.e. in this instance; the definition of class) then there is little hope of a reasoned debate. Mr Hopey seems to also like the ‘F’ word very much! If you actually know any Russian Russian’s - and discuss how they themselves define class in a post-perestroika world; you’ll realise that many equate class status with education, rather than simply wealth. Accordingly there are many Russian women who, whilst financially struggling, are very well educated and see themselves as ‘middle class’ - even if the guy next door, working on a building site earns more money.

  • Hopey

    I am Miss. There is nothing wrong with FUCKING. And you are an idiot!
    Get a fucking life if you are so happy in your fucking marriage what are you doing on this forum - just go fuck your wife, classy man!

  • Lilu

    Dear Hopey, I am a linguist and I am doing a research for a book. I go to many places and this hole of the world is one of them. At least you shouldn’t have used the word “bugger”, everything in your speech tells me you are American, and you are a man.
    Obvioulsly, what I wrote is bugging you, because it is the truth.

  • Hopey

    Ha ha. Of course, in this “hole of the world” such “scum of society” that Russian women represent, couldn’t possibly have enough brain to master a foreign language in full, including slang words.
    You can stick your research up your ass, stupid cunt, because I AM a FEMALE and I AM 100% RUSSIAN and nobody cares about your book, idiot

  • Lilu

    Thank you for giving me such a hearty laugh, Ms. Can’t-get-my-story -straight. I needed that!
    English language comes from the ancient Slavic language - Arian. For example, take the ancient Arian word “diet”. Usually given Greek origin, most Western linguists forget that Greek language was also derived from Arian. Russian word “dien” became “dia” in Latin, which later transformed into “day” in English. Diet - is a daily norm, daily food. People, who didn’t eat right suffered from mental illness and were called “idiets” in Russia. Time to get off fast food and read a book.

  • Hopey

    Time to put your head out of your ass, cunt, and think for yourself instead of reading books. You bore me with your borrowed thoughts. Copy pasting what belongs to someone else to validate yourself as some sort of a scholar. Big fail. Cunt!

  • Lilu

    And the famous English word “cunt” comes from Arian language as well. In ancient Russia, there used to be currency value called “kuna”, which was measured in the amount of martel fur. Martel in Russian is called “kunica”, by the way. So, all hairy things come at a price, my friend. :-)

  • Hopey

    shut the fuck up, arian cunt, sick and tired of your white pride nationalistic BULLSHIT.

  • Daniel

    Well, I normally stick to another thread here, but this intrigued me.

    It is true. A Russian woman will consider her children 1000 times above you. Her child can do ANYTHING and if you point out that ANYTHING (drugs, smoking, police, trunancy, etc) should be curtailed, she will destroy you for saying anything ‘corrective’ to HER child.

    It is just the way it is. As a non-Russian your sole purpose for existence is to import her children to a better culture. And you better darn well understand that is you role in the Russian woman’s life.

    A Russian woman is a cross between a vampire and the tax man. You will indeed lose all. I have.

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